Word of the Day – “freuen”

Hello everyone,

and welcome to our German Word of the Day.
A compliment, a present, a nice dish, a cold beer, a funny meme, a message back from the crush, a shelter in place orde… oh wait, forget the last one.
But yeah, there are lots of ways toward joy.
Learning German is not really one of them.
Except today, because this time, we’ll have a look at the meaning of

freuen

 

In particular, we’ll talk about the difference between freuen and sich freuen and sich freuen auf and sich freuen über. If that doesn’t sound like fun then I don’t know what does.
Well, actually I’m German, so I really just don’t know.
But I do know about freuen, so let’s jump right in :)

Freuen comes from the core adjective froh which means merry or glad.
And which actually has a brother in English: frolic.  The origin of these words is the next level ancient Indo-European root  *preu which meant something like to jump or to skip. That’s also the root where the words frog and its German translation Frosch come from, by the way.
Now, the core ideas shifted over the years. From jumping toward a notion of  swift, agile, animated, lively and from there it, it slowly drifted toward the ntotion of happy and merry… just think of a dog when you pick up a stick.

Now, the core idea is pretty clear, I think.
But translating freuen can be a bit tricky to translate because English doesn’t really have the one fitting counterpart.
Taken literally, would probably be to “happy-fy” – which in actual English would be to make happy.
And that’s indeed one possible translation.

“freuen” as “to make happy”

Let’s start with a few examples…

  • Das Wetter freut mich.
  • The weather makes me happy.
  • Dein Geschenk hat ihn sehr gefreut.
  • Your present made him very happy.
  • Es freut mich sehr, dass du zu meiner Party kommst.
  • It makes me really happy that you are going to come to my Party.

A pretty good match, but generally, I would say, freuen is a little less strong and “personal” than make happy, I think, because you can also find it a lot in daily life where people just want to express that something is nice.

  • Es würde mich sehr freuen, von Ihnen zu hören.
    It would make me very happy to hear from you (lit.)
  • It would be great to hear from you….. actual meaning
  • “Hey, ich habe Freikarten für’s Kino und auf einer steht dein Name.”
    “Oh das freut mich.”
  • “Hey I have free tickets for the movies and one of them has your name on it.”
    “Oh that makes me happy.” (lit.)
    “Oh that’s great.”

Freuen is more momentary, more transient and not as “profound”, and so it’s no wonder that it does NOT work in contexts of relationships and two people making each other happy.

  • You make me very happy.
  • Du freust mich sehr…. sounds very wrong

In those cases people would rather use the more literal translation

  • Du machst mich froh/glücklich.

Cool.
Now, unless you’re using a screen reader, you have probably noticed the color. I marked the direct object in all the examples, the person “being made happy”. I didn’t do that because there’s anything tricky here. German and English work exactly the same. I did it to direct your awareness toward that, because it might be helpful with the other uses of freuen … sich freuen.

sich freuen – to be happy

Take this sentence

  • Ich freue mich.

Based on what we’ve learned this should mean something like I make myself happy. Maybe by making a pizza and watching Netflix.
But the meaning of sich freuen has actually shifted a bit.

  • Thomas freut sich sehr, weil Maria ihn angerufen hat.
  • Thomas is very happy because Maria called him.

Here, Thomas didn’t even do anything to make himself happy. He just is becaue of the call. And that’s the actual meaning of sich freuen. It has focused on the state of being happy, rather than the deed that gets you there.
What’s important is that you don’t forget the self reference. That would sound really strange.
More examples.

  • Wir haben uns sehr gefreut, als wir die Einladung bekommen haben.
  • We were very happy when we received the invitation.
  • Ich freue mich, dich kennenzulernen.
  • I am glad to meet you.
  • “Also, dann treffen wir uns heute um 8 in der Bar.”
    “Ja, ich freu’ mich schon.”
    “Ich (freu) mich auch.
  • “Alright so we’ll meet tonight at 8 in the bar.”
    “Yep, I’m excited.” (“I am already happy … lit.)
    “Me too.”

The use in the last example is actually pretty common, so the happiness or excitement you’re feeling can also be about something in the future. Which brings us right to the difference between sich freuen über and sich freuen auf.

But before we get to that, let’s quickly mention one important caveat for the tranlation.
Remember that we said freuen was kind of momentary and not super profound? That also applies to sich freuen.  It’s about how you feel in a moment for a particular reason, and you wouldn’t use it to describe a more sense of happiness. For that, you’d use glücklich.

  • I am very happy at the moment.
  • Ich freue mich zur Zeit sehr….
  • Ich bin zur Zeit sehr glücklich.

Cool.
And now it’s time for some mad fun with prepositions :).

“sich freuen über” vs “sich freuen auf”

Verbs often use prepositions to connect an object to them. What’s pretty special about sich freuen is that it can come with two prepositions and that the translation actually changes. Ohhh, that sounds scary :).
It’s not that bad actually, the core notion of being happy doesn’t change. What changes is where the source of happiness is.
The first option is über and it is basically used to connect a thing you’re happy about in the moment.
Just think of you unboxing a present… your face is indeed kind of hovering over it :).
So this is essentially the same meaning as we had in the last section.

  • Ich habe mich sehr über deine Mail gefreut.
  • I was very happy about your mail.
  • Ich freue mich (darüber), dass heute die Sonne scheint.
  • I am happy that the sun is shining today.

    (here, “darüber” is actually optional)

  • “Hat Maria meinen Brief bekommen?”
    “Ja, sie hat sich sehr darüber gefreut.”
  • “Did Maria get my letter?”
    “Yes, she was really happy about it.”

The second option, sich freuen auf, is also about being happy in a moment. But now the reason for the happiness is in the future.
We’ve actually talked about the word auf in detail in a separate article (I’ll put the link below) and there we found that its core theme, when combined with a verb, is a notion of anticipation.
Just think of the verb warten, which also goes with auf.

  • Ich warte auf den Bus.
  • I am waiting for the bus.

We have the same notion of anticipation here.
So yeah, sich freuen auf literally is being happy in anticipation of something and that explains why the real translation is… drumroll… looking forward to something.

  • Ich freue mich auf mein Bett.
  • I am looking forward to my bed.
  • Thomas freut sich auf Dienstag, denn da hat er frei.
  • Thomas is looking forward to Tuesday, because he won’t have to work that day.
  • Ich freue mich d(a)rauf, surfen zu gehen.
  • I am looking forward to going surfing.
  • Maria hat sich den ganzen Tag darauf gefreut, abends mit ihren Freundinnen ins Kino zu gehen und Twilight Eclipse zu gucken.
  • Maria has been looking forward all day to going to the movies with her friends tonight to watch Twilight Eclipse.

And just to make sure… it’s really the auf that makes or breaks this statement.

    1. Ich freue mich d(a)rauf, dich zu sehen.
      I am looking forward to seeing you.

    • Ich freue mich (darüber), dich zu sehen.
      I am happy to see you.

Apart from darauf, the German phrasings are identical. Which, by the way, is the reason that Germans often make the mistake of saying

 

  • I am looking forward to see you.

But anyway… quick word on cases.. Both, über and auf are two-way prepositions, so they can go with Accusative and Dative.
But in combination with sich freuen they both use ACCUSATIVE.

  • Ich freue mich über das (not: dem) Geschenk.
  • I’m happy about the present.
  • Ich freue mich auf die (not: der) erste Party nach der Ausgangssperre.
  • I’m looking forward to the first party after the lockdown.
    EDIT: It was AWESOME :)!!

And that’s actually in line with the broader trend we have found in my article on two-way prepositions, which says that abstract combinations tend to go with Accusative. I’ll link that awesome article below for you, too.
I did a really good job on that article. It’s tremendous.  The greatest explanation on two way prepositions the world has eve… okay I’ll stop the nonsense :).

Where actually almost done for today.
But before we wrap up let’s get a quick shoutout to some related words.
First of, there is die Freude which is the happiness or the delight. And there is the nice word die Vorfreude which is happiness in anticipation… like the joy and delight kids feel the day before Christmas. And there is a nice idiom using both those words.

  • Vorfreude ist die schönste Freude.

Oh by the way… if you have Netflix and you’re bored, I can really recommend the series Freud, about that Austrian psychologist. It’s pretty creepy actually, and probably not very accurate but it’s really entertaining.
Anyway, of course we also need to mention the famous and oh so human die Schadenfreude.
Schaden means damage or harm and Schadenfreude is the delight you feel when someone you don’t like slips on a banana peel or gets bitched at by your boss. It is not really appropriate for really serious thing… like someones house burned down. You shouldn’t feel Schadenfreude then, and if you do you had better not admit it.
And lastly I would like to mention that Freund and related words do NOT have the same origin as freuen… but it is an awfully nice learning hint, because what do you do when you see a Freund (friend)… you freuen dich :).

So.. this was our German word of the Day freuen. The main meaning is to be happy and with auf it becomes being happy in anticipation. And don’t forget the self reference… like mich, dich sich … because freuen is always done by something/someone to someone.
If you have any questions or suggestions just leave me a comment. Ich freu mich drauf :)… hope you liked it and see you next time.

fruther reading:

German Prepositions Explained – “auf”
Two Way Prepositions in German

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Peter Rettig
Peter Rettig
8 months ago

Emanuel: Wir lieben deine Erklärungen und linken sie oft zu den deutschen Quick Games auf unserer FB Seite “Learn German – A Game A Day”, wie diesmal zum “Ich freue mich” Spiel.

Amber
Amber
10 months ago

Hi –

Can you replace this:

Bitteschön. Es ist mir eine Freude.

With:

Es ist meine Freude.

If not why? Is so, is one structure preferred to the other? Is the structure similar to possession with parts of the body? Maybe emotions and feelings follow this structure too? Sorry for all the questions!!

Big thanks!!

Sarahswids
Sarahswids
4 years ago

* first of (nope)
* first off (yep!) :)

Leslie
5 years ago

Thanks, I like your writing style… informative but entertaining. :) I think the closest you could come to “Es freut mich” would be “It gladdens me.” Not commonly said here in Canada, but same sentence structure and we all know what it means!

Simon
Simon
6 years ago

When you want to say “Pleased to meet you” , is it more natural to say :

1/ Ich freue mich, dich kennenzulernen
or
2/ Es freut mich, dich kennenzulernen ?

I think i’ve heard it shortened to just “freu (e/t) mich ” … but wasn’t sure which I was hearing.

Love God
Love God
7 years ago

Ja, man kann auch schreiben: “Hello everyone and welcome to my website! I hope you enjoy……..” Wenn man einen Brief oder eine Email auf Englisch schreibt, beginnt man das erste Wort des Satzes immer mit einem großen Buchstaben, egal ob man beim Gruß ein Komma verwendet oder nicht! Sie schreiben einen Brief nach dem typischen Deutschen Format. Sie haben alle Ihre Briefe nach diesem Format geschrieben. Als Amerikanerin kommt mir das Format fremd vor! Aber ich habe mich schlau gemacht. Englisch ist nicht Ihre Muttersprache :-) Das erklärt es! Sie geben sich aber viel Mühe! Weiter so :-)

Love God
Love God
7 years ago

Ich persönlich würde einen Brief nicht mit “and” auf Englisch beginnen! Höchstens kann man schreiben: Hello everyone and welcome to our German Word of the Day, It is the 25th of December….. Ich habe schon oft gesehen: “Hello everyone and welcome to my website,” I hope you enjoy……..

LOVE GOD
LOVE GOD
7 years ago

Im Gegensatz zu einem Brief oder eine Email auf Deutsch, beginnt man einen Brief oder eine Email auf Englisch mit einem großen Buchstabe, egal ob man ein Komma verwendet oder nicht. Auf Englisch wird man schreiben/typen: Hello everyone, Welcome to our German Word of the Day! Einige Sätze in den Brief (oder in der Email) auf Englisch sind auch nicht richtig geschrieben. (Wenn man schon lange nicht mehr Englisch regelmäßig verwendet, verlernt man seine eigene Sprache :-) Es passiert mir auch :-) Es ist an der Zeit, dass ich nach Hause gehe!

berlingrabers
7 years ago

Kannst du mal den Unterschied zwischen den Satzversionen mit bzw. ohne “darüber” erklären, worin es ums Wetter ging? (Nämlich “Ich freue mich [darüber], dass die Sonne scheint.”) Wie klingt es eigentlich ohne “darüber”?

Übrigens ist “be glad” auch eine gute Übersetzung für “sich freuen (über).”

healed4ever
healed4ever
8 years ago

Hallo Emmanuel,
Hier ist eine Frage in Facebook, dass ich sah:
Tante Alia – ein Kilo – abnehmen – pro Monat
a. Pro Monat Tante Alia nimmt ab ein Kilo.
b. Tante Alia nimmt pro Monat ein Kilo ab.
c. Ein Kilo abnimmt Tante Alia pro Monat.
d. Tante Alia abnimmt pro Monat ein Kilo.
Wieso benutzen wir nicht “c”, sondern “b” nur? (Das heißt, wieso ein Kilo nicht auf der Vorderseite des Satzes stehen kann.)( Ich bin nicht sehr gut in der Grammatik)
Erklären Sie, bitte!
Danke.

healed4ever
healed4ever
8 years ago

Konnen wir sa gen “Du freust den Hund sehr”? Weil du sagtest, dass “freuen” nicht mit 2 Personen benuzt werden kann.

conanon
9 years ago

Ich möchte das Sprichwort! Ich werde das nutzen, wann der Geburtstag von meiner Freundin kommt. :D Sowieso kann ich eine Frage stellen, oder? Gibt es ein besseres Wort für jemand statt des Wortes ‘Freund’, wenn die einzige Beziehung zwischen uns Freundschaft ist?

conanon
9 years ago
Reply to  Emanuel

Oh, ok. Also sollte ich hier gesagt haben: “eine Freundin von mir” und nicht “meine Freundin”. Oops! Vielen danke nochmals… Ich kennte nicht den Unterschied vor jetzt. (:

Rob
Rob
9 years ago

I think your blog is amazing. Keep it up!!

Anonymous
Anonymous
9 years ago

I think this blog is amazing!!!

Anonymous
Anonymous
9 years ago

Hello it’s really good written. But only one correction. You wrote “Ich habe mich sehr über dein Mail gefreut.” In this case, it”s better to say/write ” … über deine mail” in german means mail 1.der Brief (mask. -> dein ) 2. die Post (fem. -> deine.)
Germans uses to say: Ich habe mich über deine Mail/Post gefreut.
or: Ich habe mich über deinen Brief gefreut.

Sorry for my worse english. But I hope it’s usefull for you.
best wishes, a german reader :-)

Anonymous
Anonymous
5 years ago
Reply to  Emanuel

in Switzerland it’s usually das e-mail (see wiktionary) so it’s not really wrong;-)

Mark
Mark
9 years ago

Just wanted to say, I love your blog! Keep blogging!

JEAP
JEAP
9 years ago

Hallo!

Long and elaborated posts are great, but this short and to the point WOTD was great as well. I was able to read it entirely in one shot :)

Ich habe eine Frage an dich:

1. Ich freue mich darüber, dass heute die Sonne scheint.
2. Es freut mich sehr, dass du zu meiner Party kommst.

Why isn’t there a “darüber” in sentence 2?
I think “darüber” doesn’t work with the “makes me happy” version, but I’m not sure if that’s the reason.

Ich freue mich auf den nächsten Artikel ;)

Viele Grüße

Bash
Bash
9 years ago

another nice post!
but what’s in the box?
and don’t reply with that Vorfreude idiom!
:P